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Despite the conventional "wisdom" otherwise. Yesterday I was running to my Dad's car, as a truck was behind him on the road, waiting to get by. A dark-haired, tan young man in the front seat grinned, waved at me and said, "Hello!" like he knew me.

I stopped, leant forward, angled my glasses and peered at him, wondering if he was a friend of mine.

"You don't know me," he said, laughing.

"Oh, I thought you were a friend of mine," I laughed.

"I dunno, play your cards right..." And he grins.

It's that blustery, confident Australian sort of come-on line that wouldn't work if you were from somewhere else, and I just laughed and blushed and hopped into my car, and waved at him as I left. I doubt he was my type, probably a bit young for me, but I was absolutely delighted because I didn't think I got that sort of attention anymore!

And I wasn't wearing ANY make-up, a drab grey jumper and some old jeans. Hair tied back in a pony, geeky glasses on. And I got a come-on line!

I still got it, yo. And I didn't even feel objectified! He said hello to me, like a real fuckin' person!

And that is how you do it, fellas.

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Date: 2010-06-25 10:51 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] bewarethespork.livejournal.com
Awww, that is awesome. :)

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Date: 2010-06-25 12:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hippiegal22.livejournal.com
My brother and I have a joke that some men know how to flirt and some don't have the slightest idea of how to do it without making the gal uncomfortable.

How Not to Do It

Date: 2010-06-25 04:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nicoli-dominn.livejournal.com
90% OF NASHVILLE'S MALE POPULATION: "Hey, bebbeh. You got a nice-lookin' body, mm-hmm, know what I'm sayin'? Yeah, you real sexy. How's about I getchoo somethin' at Taco Bell, mm? Know what I'm sayin'?"

UNSUSPECTING OBJECT OF DESIRE: "...Guh." (U.O.D. hurriedly walks away, sparing only one or two nervous, wide-eyed backward glances to make sure Mr. 90% isn't trying to extend the encounter.)

Re: How Not to Do It

Date: 2010-06-25 08:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hippiegal22.livejournal.com
LOL!

I think that's how most redneck guys 'flirt.' *wink*

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Date: 2010-06-25 01:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bunny-m.livejournal.com
*applauds*

Well done, that man!

^_^

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Date: 2010-06-25 01:41 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] allegraconbrio.livejournal.com
This is awesome. I was flirted with yesterday, too. It had been so long I didn't even know I was being flirted with until it was over. And I didn't flail about it. That is good. :)

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Date: 2010-06-25 04:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] transcendancing.livejournal.com
Win for awesome flirting!

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Date: 2010-06-25 04:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] veronica-rich.livejournal.com
I dunno. Would you have felt as unobjectified if he'd done this while you were suited up to the nines in a fancy outfit, makeup, nice hair and heels? Enquiring minds ... *G*

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Date: 2010-06-25 04:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] logansrogue.livejournal.com
I would have probably felt a little more vulnerable, but not more objectified. I also would have completely understood why he made the pull. But with me looking like some scruffy geek, I just didn't understand why he bothered. LOL.

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Date: 2010-06-25 10:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drbunsen.livejournal.com
Yo, scruffy geek girl works for me, and don't be surprised if it works again. There's more of us about than you may realise :)

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Date: 2010-06-26 02:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bunny-m.livejournal.com
Sing it, brother!

^_^

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Date: 2010-06-28 03:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] logansrogue.livejournal.com
Good to know, but I wish you dudes would express interest more often! I'm ever so shy!

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Date: 2010-06-28 05:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drbunsen.livejournal.com
Herein lies the problem: shy boys like shy girls :/

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Date: 2010-06-25 04:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asweetdownfall.livejournal.com
AWWWW YAY. FOUR FOR YOU, MYSTERIOUS GUY. :D

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Date: 2010-06-25 08:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drbunsen.livejournal.com
Yello. I'm here via your article about that [livejournal.com profile] peterchayward trainwreck, which was reposted to [livejournal.com profile] melbournemaniac. I plan to friend you for further reading if I may :)

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Date: 2010-06-25 08:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] logansrogue.livejournal.com
Hello! AHa! I knew that wankstain wouldn't do any charity work! Sorry, just had a look at the post and - UGH. Who told him he was funny? He shouldn't make videos, they're painful.

He has one of those faces you just want to thump.

Feel free to friend, shall return the favour. I talk about Feminism and Doctor Who a lot. And cats.

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Date: 2010-06-25 09:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drbunsen.livejournal.com
Singing "these are a few of my faaavourite things" :D

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Date: 2010-06-28 03:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] logansrogue.livejournal.com
Clearly you are made of awesome-sauce.

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Date: 2010-06-28 05:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drbunsen.livejournal.com
I SAW HIM IN THE STREET LAST NIGHT
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Date: 2010-06-27 03:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] logansrogue.livejournal.com
My little bro was like, "OH man, I gotta use that line, that's Kirk-worthy."

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