Oh. *Ashamed* I didn't know if you'd seen my comments in the post that got deleted last night--I'd had a very, very long, bad day, so when I logged on and saw that, because my sense of humor is so very weird, I couldn't stop laughing and I didn't take the situation too seriously, so if I added to the problem, I'm really, really sorry.
I didn't see your comments. I know you're a nice person and that if you thought the situation through properly, you'd see it's not funny.
It's absolutely the WORST thing that any H/Hr fan could do. The worst. Below anything else. It's bad. It's when people do shit like that that I take them by the collar, start shaking them and saying "It's JUST A FUCKING BOOK!"
The post is gone now, some people haven't seen it. I'm tempted to write to Emerson and make sure he hasn't been harrassed by anyone.
*Nodnod* You're right. I'd said that, while, again, I hadn't been taking it very seriously and was just giggling at it, that as long as it wasn't being used in a bad way and he wasn't being hurt, I just found it funny that he'd posted it somewhere at all.
It was very, very foolish of me to make light of it what so ever, and I'm sorry. The next day, the whole thing just feels very odd and I'm face-palming every few minutes. I didn't call him, and made it clear that it wasn't the sort of thing I did, but as I've said, I wasn't as discouraging or serious about it as I ought to have been.
I really don't think he -was- harassed by anybody, at least not anyone from harryhermione; from my understanding, his number is up at either his Myspace or Facebook so mugglenet fans or whoever can call him, and from what I saw, the others around here--the ones that weren't mad that it had been brought up at all, I mean--were a bit more like me and just laughed about it. And it seems the post was only up for a short time, so any calls he has gotten probably wasn't from anybody here.
Anyway, I'll shut up now. I just wanted to apologize, and I know you must be pretty disappointed in me. I can't stand the thought, but, I know I probably have it coming to me and, luckily, things like this don't happen often and I don't think we're gonna have a repeat.
I hope you never have to deal with this sort of thing again, and I'm sorry for my part in it. Love ya.
Dude, I'm not disappointed in you at all. You didn't condone it, did you? You just laughed, that's nothing bad. If you'd phoned him up yourself and called him a dick swizzler, then I would have been all, "Aww, shit, Gracie!" But you didn't, did you? :)
I'm just coming down hard on the whole community cause I want it to be clear that it's not the place for that sort of thing. But I think everyone gets that by now! LOL! :D
No more face-palming, sweetie. Love you too. :) *hugs*
Mm. I don't feel all that innocent, but, I'm just really glad you're not angry with me and, yeah, I totally see how you're doing what you need to do and, like I said, I doub't it's gonna happen over again.
HA! That last comment got cut-off, which is probably a good thing, because we all know how I ramble. Anyway, I still feel a bit guilty, but my biggest fear was that you'd be upset or cross with me so that's a relief. I just needed to be honest, I don't like hiding stuff, especially when it might matter.
And, haha, yeah, I think the comm's a little confused but the message is definitely received none the less. :P I think I'm just gonna check on Hazel, make sure she's okay. I'm not defending what happened, or anything, but I know if it were me I'd be feeling pretty embarrassed the next day. I mean like more embarrassed then I am anyway. Cough.
Thanks for being so cool about talking to me about this. Ha, your patients with me continues to astound. *Loves back times a whole bunch*
Dude, it's just fandom. You didn't do anything wrong, so there's no reason for me to be all angry or anything. :)
From what I could tell in her post, hazel was more pissed about her reception than the idea of doing it, which disappoints me. Really, when one has done something bad, they should just accept and apologise, admitting what they've done is wrong.
If she wants back in the community, she can email me at any time to discuss what happened. What I did was to control a situation that could have gone VERY bad. If she's actually sorry about what she did and discusses that with me, then I'll take it to the other mods and I'll see what I can do.
Haha. Eh, we all know how obsessive I am over stuff, it's normal for me. :P
Awww, that's a sweet thing for you to consider. I totally see how you were doing what you needed, and it's very cool of ya'll to consider something like that, and I hope she takes advantage of it.
Awwww. No wonder why I wuv this community so much. *Sap*
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Date: 2007-02-05 11:39 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2007-02-05 11:47 pm (UTC)It's absolutely the WORST thing that any H/Hr fan could do. The worst. Below anything else. It's bad. It's when people do shit like that that I take them by the collar, start shaking them and saying "It's JUST A FUCKING BOOK!"
The post is gone now, some people haven't seen it. I'm tempted to write to Emerson and make sure he hasn't been harrassed by anyone.
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Date: 2007-02-06 12:03 am (UTC)It was very, very foolish of me to make light of it what so ever, and I'm sorry. The next day, the whole thing just feels very odd and I'm face-palming every few minutes. I didn't call him, and made it clear that it wasn't the sort of thing I did, but as I've said, I wasn't as discouraging or serious about it as I ought to have been.
I really don't think he -was- harassed by anybody, at least not anyone from harryhermione; from my understanding, his number is up at either his Myspace or Facebook so mugglenet fans or whoever can call him, and from what I saw, the others around here--the ones that weren't mad that it had been brought up at all, I mean--were a bit more like me and just laughed about it. And it seems the post was only up for a short time, so any calls he has gotten probably wasn't from anybody here.
Anyway, I'll shut up now. I just wanted to apologize, and I know you must be pretty disappointed in me. I can't stand the thought, but, I know I probably have it coming to me and, luckily, things like this don't happen often and I don't think we're gonna have a repeat.
I hope you never have to deal with this sort of thing again, and I'm sorry for my part in it. Love ya.
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Date: 2007-02-06 12:24 am (UTC)I'm just coming down hard on the whole community cause I want it to be clear that it's not the place for that sort of thing. But I think everyone gets that by now! LOL! :D
No more face-palming, sweetie. Love you too. :) *hugs*
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Date: 2007-02-06 12:42 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2007-02-06 01:32 am (UTC)And, haha, yeah, I think the comm's a little confused but the message is definitely received none the less. :P I think I'm just gonna check on Hazel, make sure she's okay. I'm not defending what happened, or anything, but I know if it were me I'd be feeling pretty embarrassed the next day. I mean like more embarrassed then I am anyway. Cough.
Thanks for being so cool about talking to me about this. Ha, your patients with me continues to astound. *Loves back times a whole bunch*
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Date: 2007-02-06 07:27 am (UTC)From what I could tell in her post, hazel was more pissed about her reception than the idea of doing it, which disappoints me. Really, when one has done something bad, they should just accept and apologise, admitting what they've done is wrong.
If she wants back in the community, she can email me at any time to discuss what happened. What I did was to control a situation that could have gone VERY bad. If she's actually sorry about what she did and discusses that with me, then I'll take it to the other mods and I'll see what I can do.
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Date: 2007-02-06 08:08 am (UTC)Awww, that's a sweet thing for you to consider. I totally see how you were doing what you needed, and it's very cool of ya'll to consider something like that, and I hope she takes advantage of it.
Awwww. No wonder why I wuv this community so much. *Sap*