I think that maybe they put too much emphasis on men not wanting to be in a relationship with smart women, and not enough on smart women not wanting to be in crap relationships...
You are smart and talented! You need to find someone who loves you for both these qualities. Any man who doesn't accept these in you doesn't deserve you.
I'd like to believe this too ... It would explain my single status and total lack of a boyfriend, which is fine. I'm cool with my independence.
Ha! I'm never going to lower my standards. Honestly, why would I be stuck with somebody with that low of Intelect. I'm just 14 and I know already finding the right girl is going to be a serious challenge.
Absolutely. Though I find most of the women I dig aren't looking for relationships either. We keep getting naughty when we're horny and remain friends the rest of the time. It's an odd situation! *lol*
You're not wrong. Finding the right *anyone* is a serious challenge. I've been at it for years and I've had no luck. Doesn't help that I'm quite an unusual and overly creative woman, which lowers my chances quite a lot. Just you keep looking for the clever ones, my man. *hugs*
Yeah, that's what I figured when I read the article, that it was rather heavily weighted towards "Men want to marry Suzy Homemakers!" and only barely mentioned in passing that smart women often found men too boring to have relationships with, not that smart women may have noticed that marriage remains a set up based on underlying expectations regarding women becoming adjuncts (if not chattel) of their husbands. (I'm reminded of my cousin's wedding a few months back, where the pastor really hammered home the Biblical bit about women submitting to their husbands and only briefly touched upon the responsibility of said husband not to be a jerk about how he treated his wife.)
The really depressing part is that, paired with the way stupid people are currently outbreeding the smart ones for various reasons (many of them having to do with smart people using birth control and stupid ones not bothering), if the smart men are marrying dumber women and the smart women aren't marrying then we're not exactly countering the devolution of our intelligence as a species.
(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 10:28 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 10:45 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 10:48 am (UTC)... sucks, doesn't it? =p
(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 10:49 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 12:30 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 12:38 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 01:09 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 04:45 pm (UTC)*sobs*
(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 05:52 pm (UTC)I'd like to believe this too ... It would explain my single status and total lack of a boyfriend, which is fine. I'm cool with my independence.
(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 05:53 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 05:54 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 05:54 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 05:58 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-09 07:00 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 12:48 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 01:33 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 01:33 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 01:33 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 01:34 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 01:34 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 01:35 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 01:39 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 02:51 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 02:52 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 02:55 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 03:39 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2005-01-10 03:42 pm (UTC)