Yes, I've seen a lot of the hardcore slash fans that ruin it for the ones who are in it for the fun of it all just act like total putzes. It's unfortunate, really :-(

What makes it even worse with those more, um, militant slash fans that make it tough for the nice folks are those who also wear the Tinfoil Hats and swear up and down that Jensen and Jared are secretly sexx0ring each other up and that their ladies are just beards for them (jeez, THAT sounds familar, doesn't it?). I just don't get that logic. Makes my head go all asplodey.