And for "invalidating" members because when they jumped on me for it I said, "Oh I thought this was a survivor community". Because apparently nobody was smart enough to realize that I meant that they shouldn't judge, and instead thought that I was saying they were imposters, or something.

Yeah, it was stupid.

But there's been a lot of change around and in me lately and I'm discovering that most people liked me more when I was a doormat. O.o