I'm amazed at the ability of our society to somehow bring even the remorse and negative social consequences of being a sex offender down to being the victim's responsibility somehow. Like the things he's suffering are unfair or too much for him to bear and I'm supposed to fix that somehow. What, because in this situation the justice system didn't think this important enough to make a case out of, I should never feel like I have a sense of justice? That I shouldn't do SOMETHING to protect other women out there, more vulnerable than me?

I'm trying not to feel guilty, but there's a deeper, emotional part of me that rarely listens to reason. Very hard to get that aspect of myself to calm down and chill.

Anyway, big thanks. *hugs*