Uhm... you know that's funny. I'd be totally put off by a man wanting to be dominated by me. I don't want a powerless man in bed. As I said to someone else, I logically understand the kink and morally have no objection to other people enjoying what they like to enjoy in the privacy of their own bedrooms (as long as nobody is hurt). But personally, I'm rather more turned on by a meeting of equals. Balance and challenge and surrender - those are my kinks, I guess. But I'm an old romantic at heart. LOL.