I can tell you that any single woman is looked down upon if she doesn't have her own set of status symbols. Any wife (like my sister) feels the pressure to have the house and this and that. *I* feel like a bum for not having a job, and I'm sure people think me one because I don't have a job. And I'm a woman! I feel just as much pressure as any man to be successful and to make something of myself, but maybe I'm odd like that.

I'm not arguing the raw data - I'm arguing the logicless interpretation of that data. If this says this then it means that - life is far more complicated than that and these people totally seem to drop the ball. Guh - it's just bad logic, damn it!